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[00:00:00] :  we have got involved. This show is brought to you by safety. The following program is rated M. L. S. V. It contains strong language, sexual situations and violence. It is intended only for mature audiences. Finally show with the ball should call him like it is rated R. Safety show on safety FM. Countdown to audio torture. Directed our safety show starts in 321 levee, ear drum pain, begin. Forget the corporate bullshit. This is the rated R. Safety show with your host. Dr uh it doesn't matter who the host is. Well. Well, well, well, it really does not matter who the host is. Yes, that is so true. Today is friday april the 30th of 2021 day, 120th of the year and only 245 days left to go. So I guess there is some time for us to do what we still need to do around here. So how are you doing seriously? Like how are you doing? I was giving some thoughts to a lot of things as we were going through the overnight and all that kind of fun stuff. Been up often on roughly. Uh, we'll call it three a.m. My local time. Uh, just kind of giving some thoughts to some things here in, you know, I have to tell you, we're going to probably start this off talking slightly different. It's interesting on how we get so accustomed to formatting and we get so accustomed to just talking and doing the news and playing this and playing that. And maybe sometimes, you know, it's not about the repetitive nous of things, it's not about doing it in that particular format, it's not about doing liner drops at the moment that you expect them. It's not about doing all these other things and maybe we should start doing things differently because that's what we tend not to do in our common life. It seems to be that way. I mean, think about it for a moment, think about how your structure is set up right now, you know, it does make things simple in regards of doing that, but imagine if we didn't do it in that particular format. Yeah, I know what it was like, what the hell are we talking about this morning? Yeah, that's what exactly what we're talking about. You must make time. That's what we're talking about and yeah, you know where I'm on, you know, I'm on safety FM. You know, I'm on radio big, but let's do it different today than any other day. Here is our main story on the right safety show. So yeah, let's go. Main story starting off right out of the bat, because that's where my my mind is at this morning. So, let's start talking about those things. Let's start talking about the things that we tend to forget about. We tend to forget about all this important stuff and let's be realistic, this applies to all of us and don't worry, I'm not gonna drop out all of a sudden in a moments time just in case. But let's think about this for just a brief second. We need to start making time for a lot of things in our life because we tend not to do so and that's the fun part. You regardless of what career you have you regardless of what you're doing. We tend to forget about this luxury that is not truly a luxury that's known as time. Yes, I'm going to talk about it right now. Time stops for no one unless you're dead. Sorry, but that's the reality of the situation and it's not the time stopped for you. You stopped for it because you're done. Let's take the doom and gloom about out of the whole thing. But let's realistically start having a conversation. I know that you have to work. I know that I have to work. But listen, there are other things inside of your life that also needs some of your time. Work is important. Life is important. Your family is important, your significant other is important. So, these things need to be a focal point. We talk about things all the time that are going on inside of the news, things that are happening inside of the world. But look at it from a different standpoint for a moment. Seriously, we don't know when the next gun violence occurrence might occur. We don't know when the next accident might occur. We don't know when the next event might occur. We see news all the time about these things. If you don't start making time right now for things that are important for you, When will you start doing it? I can tell you I have traveled the road up and down the U. S. And I will tell you I have had more failed personal relationships because of that time on the road. Things that I was doing while I was driving down the road and not focusing on other things that needed attention. And I can tell you that during the lockdown and during the pandemic, if you've been locked up for a long period of time, things have changed dramatically. There has been an intersection between your personal life and your work life on how things are combined. In one spot, I mean, and I know that we can go through that whole conversation where people believed in that whole bullshit that you left work at the door when you got home or vice versa, which there's really not a reality to that, but think about this for a moment. Think about you actually taking the time of investing time in the people around you. Do you do that? And I know we can talk about work life balance, which a lot of people used to use this phrasing and this wording and so on. But is that something that's real? Because here's a gig if you don't start making time for where the people around you, someone else will. Yeah, someone else will. And that's the portion that people tend to forget about. It's easy to turn to things that are like the bottle, there is easy for people to turn to drugs when certain things are not being met. And it's kind of a weird conversation a half. Let's be realistic. And yeah, I'm saying this on the air because this is the conversation that you and I always have. It's that open and honest relationship I will tell you, we will always have that you will never have to worry on where I am at or what I am thinking about because you and I will always have that discussion. Don't tend to shy away from things that other people do. That's not the reason I do it. But I think that for us to be able to have a better understanding of each other, we have to be open with each other if we're not, we're kind of wasting our time. Sorry. But it's the truth. You let me in to a personal view of what you have going on. I do the same thing vice versa over here, but let's start talking on how important it is to make time for. Six section planning, it has to be for the different things that are going on. I think that's what we tend to do. We're better saying not tend to do is that we don't focus so much on other things. Present company included. Let's make sure that I'm clear here. If I don't set a priority of spending time with my kids, well that devalues what I bring to the relationship to my kids, then all of a sudden I have to compete with internet television and other things. Not that that competition is not there, but those are the things that will occur. The same thing occurs with relationships that you're building with other people, spouses, relationships that you're building with friends, business colleagues and so on. Think about it. Anything that you want to see grow, you have to actually put time into, You probably went to school for a period of time to learn something that you did not know. You probably started a job and didn't have didn't have certain understandings about portions of the job you took time to get it to grow. The same thing occurs, You have to start making time now listen, let's be real. I don't care if it's time that goes away that you have to put aside from what you listen to on this show, but there has to be a good balance on how you're spending your time. I try to do this early enough where we can spend time together. We also do a recorded format of course that you can listen to on a podcast, but that's the thing I know advertisers are going to hate me for saying shit like that, but hey, whatever, this is not the important part, the important part is what you and I are conversing about right now. If you don't make it a priority right now, what's going to happen down the road? Or should I say value based on if you heard the other show this morning, I think it's such a serious thing to talk about. It really is because I think that we tend to forget the importance of relationship building. We tend to forget the importance on spending time on what is important to you. And if you're only spending time at work, then what don't get me wrong, work normally provides a way of living. But if you're trying to build a structure of life or relationships with others, you have to invest time into it. Listen, you can be a recluse, we talk about that all the time here, but what is it going to do in the long run? That's something I want you to think about today and that's something that we need to start talking about and that's something that we need to start looking at changes as we go down the road, opposed to it just being the whole sequence of well, everything is happy go lucky and let's just continue to work work, work, work, work, work, because that's what some people do when things are not going well, they focus on work. When the chips are down, they focus on work and work is not going to be the solution to everything. Sorry, got to share it with you. Think about it for a moment, invest your time on things that you seem that seem important to you now. Think about this real quick if you've been in a relationship, if you have Children, these kids, this relationship, the people that know you know what you invest your time in. So if you're not investing your time with them or with things that you claim that our priorities, I think some people might have some questions. That's something to think about this morning. Right. What do I know? Should I just say I'm just a psychologist who's behind a microphone? Oh no, no. I should probably just say I'm just a guy behind a microphone. What did he just say? We don't always agree with the viewpoints of our hosts and guests back to real safety talk on safety. FM. I spend a lot of time in the backyard and I'm the center of attention at summer barbecues. In 96 I made some of the tastiest smores and at oh nine it was me your backyard fire pit that accidentally started a wildfire when a summer breeze carried one of my embers into some dry brush spark a change. Not a wildfire visit. 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Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has called it a great tragedy, Nourish Beagles, a correspondent for the Haaretz newspaper, the horrible morning Here in Israel, huge disaster here in the Marwan Mountain. Thousands of people came back to the mountain to celebrate the holiday and it just ended up in the middle of the night in a horrible disaster. A huge amount of people who was going down the stairs. The crowd was very, very close to each other and there was nowhere to go there. They were just falling on each other. Help from all over the world is arriving in India on friday 400 oxygen cylinder and one million Covid 19 testing kits landed in the country. It's a time when the health care system is crashing in crematoriums are filling up across the nation, which angered reports from New Delhi aboard the flight from the U. S. There are pulse oximeters, oxygen concentrators and a million pp kids to the United States says this is one of the many such shipments to arrive here Ireland to has sent 700 oxygen concentrators. Its neighbour, the United Kingdom says it's deploying three oxygen factories. All this help is necessary as India recorded more than 380,000 cases for two days in a row. Municipal officers in Delhi are building makeshift crematoriums as deaths keep mounting due to a severe lack of beds and medical oxygen health experts say the situation could get worse in mid May when India could record more than 800,000 cases in a day session. Gerg New Delhi brazil has passed 400,000 covid 19 deaths. As its vaccination program struggles to accelerate, There's been a slight fall from the highs of deaths and cases, but there were still over 3000 fatalities recorded in the last 24 hours. South Korean, President Moon Jae in is set to meet with us President Joe Biden at the White House on May 12. He'll be the second foreign leader to make such a visit since Mr Biden took office. Geography data reports from Washington. In a statement, press Secretary jen Psaki said President Moon's visit will highlight the ironclad alliance between the United States and the Republic of Korea as well as the broad and deep ties between the governments, people and economies of the two countries. Psaki said President Biden looks forward to working with President Moon to further strengthen their alliance and expand their close cooperation. Japan's Prime minister Yoshida Saga was the first foreign leader Joe Biden invited to the White House for a face to face meeting. The pandemic has meant that many of the president's meetings with foreign dignitaries have had to be held virtually. I'm Jack rooted in Washington from bureaus worldwide. This is this show is almost as enjoyable as hearing the sound of the toilet flush rated R. Safety show on safety. FM. Okay so there you go, 17 minutes past the top of the hour as you and I are hanging out. Of course we're hanging out doing the things that we do together. Yes. Don't take it all personal as I started talking about some craziness As we are, 17 minutes past the top of the hours. I did say, by the way, just in case we did not realize this, we are still broadcasting live from the safety of M studios and or they do Florida. So that's not a doubt. Anyways whatsoever. You know, you know how it goes. Real big streaming, 24 7 real big dot FM. Okay, so let me tell you about what is trending currently. So let's start talking about that. So, new to the video on demand services for this weekend. If you don't have much plan and you're gonna stay home and watch the boob tube. So here we go. Training new to amazon is angels and demons flight Georgia rule jumping the broom. Hey, now rio shattered the indian in the cupboard two for the two for free money. There's also of course probably some other things. I'm just trying to give you the highlights of what's there. Uh New to a hulu. Let's see the age of Adaline betrayed. Dancing dances with wolfs grudge match. Hannibal rising lucky number Slevin. Yes, I did said Slevin, True lies. And we were soldiers knew to netflix will be back to the future. Part one, part two and part three. Due date Fun with dick and jane Mystic River open season. The lovely bones waist deep in zombie land. Boy would I would actually rearrange some of those. Uh, and then of course new to HBO max just in case if you did not know uh 17 again. The cable guy Daddy daycare, magic mike freeze Willie's, I'll hold on, no, no, no, it's magic mike and free willy Tenet Varsity Blue and what mary heads when Harry Met Sally. So there you go. That is what is going on across the video streaming services. If you're so inclined to watch something this weekend, you're listening to something. You're listening to the rated R safety show. Okay, so here you go, Connecticut will no longer allow a religious exemption from childhood immunization requirements for schools, colleges in daycare facilities. Opposing groups say the plan to file a state and federal lawsuit seeking to overturn it, Connecticut is the sixth state to end the policy, The state medical exemption will remain in place. Uh, so there you go. There you go. There you go. Uh, some interesting stuff going on inside of there. For sure. Let's continue talking. As of Tuesday, over 237.3 million covid vaccine have been administered nationwide. Over 99.6 million americans have been fully vaccinated while more than 100 and 43.7 million have received at least one dose according to the C. D. C. The total number of cumulative cases in the U. S. Is over 32 million. With just over 571,000 deaths attributed to the virus. So there you go. Some information for sure. We're starting to see that increase a number of deaths as we continue to talk about it. And of course the total cases continue to grow as we speak. I mean it's not it's still important the number. Let's talk about it but it's not as big as it once was as regards of the jumping from one day to another. So let's make sure that we're clear when we're starting to talk about that stuff. So here's the thing. And as we continue to talk about this because it's going to be an ongoing conversation, at least for the next few months. What do you think about the whole vaccine aspect? Because here's the thing. I've heard people tell me they're against it. I've heard people tell me they're for it. I've heard people tell me that they're against it and then go get the vaccine. I hear people that say that they're for it but they don't want to get the vaccine. So I don't know. It's kind of a weird mix. How much data do you need if you would actually contemplate actually getting it? And then here's the other thing. If you agreed to get it and you go after and get the vaccine, will it be once it is? I guess it meets all the FDA requirements and it's not an emergency release. I'm just asking the question. And do you think that it will end up being something very similar to how the flu shot is? Which means it is optional for you? Just a question and definitely some stuff to think about. Listen to our host of the rated R. Safety show self implode on our airwaves only on safety FM. Uh The officials from the Department of Justice plan to ask the grand jury to indict Derek Chavan um and the three other former officers involved in George Floyd's death on charges of civil rights. The news comes amid reports of the federal officials planned to arrest Derek at the courthouse of hold on Derek at the courthouse if he was found not guilty on all charges last week are really on all charges. Okay federal authorities have been mounting their own police brutality case against the former cops and the better better part yet is that the um for the better part of a year, this is according to what the star tribune has reported. So, I don't know if you have been seeing the sequence of events about that, but there you go. So what do you think about it? As you do hear it? Some questions for sure. Quest come to mind as those things do come about Anyway, as a high school track coach from Oregon is demanding to an end to all. Mass mandate after one of his athletes collapse what he believes was an up due to oxygen deficiency. Summit High School Schooler Maggie Williams broke a school record last Thursday and the 800 m run and the video of the event went viral when the team was seen stumbling across the finish line before collapsing to the ground. In a recent interview with Fox News, Laura Ingraham Williams said that she suffered a temporary loss of consciousness. It believes that the mask is to blame. Coach Dave Turnbull said that is responsible for these athletes and needs to stand up for their health and safety, which is why he is demanding that must be removed while athletes compete. Summit High School has not commented on the incident. So let's talk about this because there are some kind of key indicators here. The coach just said that he is responsible for the health and safety of his athletes. You saw somebody or heard of somebody who lost consciousness after actually breaking a school record. So what do you think here? And I know that we're tying in some other things, but this is becoming the question that a lot of people are having related to mask. So, my question to you goes around this section. If you get vaccinated, do you need a mask if you're outdoors? Do you need a mask? If you are competing with something? Do you need a mask because listen to this, we hear those three sections, but we know that the people that do the work that they do day in and day out are going to start asking these questions more and more Now, what are you doing at your organization when it comes to this? What is the science that you are seeing that you are using? That you're saying? Yes, Cool, let's move forward. Just a question for you, not trying to push the as we're talking about it, just trying to figure out what needs to take place. So do you think the mask had something to do with the girls? Lack of oxygen Begins? Let's talk about it. It's very competitive what she's doing. I mean, I'm sure as hell not running 800 m run unless I'm running away from someone and that's probably gonna be a slow run at this case. But think about it for a moment. Do you think that it was a combination of both? Thinks something to think about for sure. Safety in a way never heard of before. Created a safety show on safety is so have you heard about this? Americans feel more alone than ever since the beginning of the pandemic, 67 of Americans have felt more alone than they ever have before, according to a new study by one poll and med friends. So here we go. The fall of 2003, Americans found that 57 excuse me, 55 feel like they have completely lost their sense of community in the past year. While 62 feel they have that there is no one other they can talk to about their loneliness or feelings of isolation. Another 46 revealed that they cried for the first time in years during the pandemic. The study also found that the average person lost touch with four friends since the pandemic began, the mental health effects of the pandemic has been tremendous, yet it is unclear what it will be properly addressed. Uh So there you go, that's some stuff to think about. Have you seen any of these effects going on with your side? Have you experienced any of this over the last bit? Because here's the thing, I think it is something to talk about and if you're not comfortable talking to me or talking to a close friends, maybe you'll be comfortable talking to the american Foundation of suicide prevention. And let me kind of go a little bit more specific here, know that you are not alone. Whether you have struggled with suicide yourself or depression or have lost a loved one, know that you're not alone here about experiences from people in your local community whose lives have been impacted by suicide and depression. You can go to their website a f sp dot org, that's a F sp dot org or call 1 802 738255 That's 1 802 738255 Or text the word talk to 741741 Listen, it's so important that you're here, it's so important to talk about the things that you're going through. And if you are struggling with any of this, it needs to be talked about. And I'm gonna tell you this news story was not a pliant, but we need to start having these conversations. I'm telling you mental health issues are going to be pretty big post pandemic when people are willing to talk. And I will tell you if you have not opened up your locations yet. If you have not opened up different segment of your organization's where people can actually come in and start doing stuff in person, I think you need to start getting prepared for this stuff. I will tell you in some of the companies that I've worked with, I've actually been heavily involved with HR. So I think that if your HR department is not ready for this, this is probably a combo that needs to start taking place. And you know how we talk about safety fixing, of course warning coming from SAn Goodman's show of the hob nerd. I think it's something that we definitely need to consider as we do move forward anyways, let's continue talking a little bit more about some other things new york city will fully open on july the first, according to Mayor Bill de Blasio. He has based the timing on the fact that people have gotten vaccinated and extraordinary numbers and start um, in stating that 6.3 million six million vaccinations have been administered with more lining lining up to get the Jab. So does fully open means residents will be able to gather and celebrate independence day. That will be kind of one of the things that first asked and the CDC reports that 2.9 million people in New York City are fully vaccinated at this time. So there you go. There you go. So, some things to think about. So we're still talking a couple of months away regardless on how you look at this. So I know that there's been conversation at least in the US, that by july the force you might be able to, you know, be having a barbecue with people and so on. Is this something that you're planning on doing now? I will tell you in the local community that I live in, they are actually putting on events and I will tell you there are some chores, we'll talk about comedy tours that are taking place that are outdoors. And I remember a few months back we showed you some scaffolding, a picture of some scaffolding. If you're watching on the streamer where you could rent out the top of the scaffold and hang out and watch an event. But you were socially distance. I think it was like a scaffold or they called it a pot or they called it something held about four people. Well in the local community that I'm in there doing it with two. Is it something you start considering? I don't know. That's why I'm asking what she would consider. I think it's pretty interesting. That's for sure. As we are talking about it anyways, let's talk, let's talk about the stock index and let's get our friend, you know, john small come in and help out. Here's your market beat minute for Friday. April 30 2021. The equities market went on a wild ride thursday following a series of blowout reports from the top names on Wall Street. Among them are Apple Microsoft, Ebay and ford, but the mood was dampened by growing indications of doom for the market as robust as the growth outlook is, the estimates may be too high because of global chip shortage. More than a few S and P 500 companies have noted the shortage and its impact on future revenue. In addition, talk of higher taxes continues in Washington and added its cloud to the outlook friday is going to be a make or break moment for the major indices. If the indices can hold their ground at these new highs going into the close of the week. Further upside is more likely than not. If however, the mood on Wall Street's hours in the market moves lower friday. It could mark the beginning of a correction that has been brewing for months. You can get the inside track from Wall Street's brightest minds delivered directly to your inbox every day at market beat minute dot com. So there you go. Some things to think about for sure. So markets around moved higher. On thursday, the Dow search 239 points, The NASDAQ gained 31 points and the S and P. Lifted about 28 points. Both the NASDAQ composite of the S and P 500 finished a new all time records investors responded positively to a new report showing the economic growth An annualized rate of 6.4 during the first three months of the year, analysts were predicting the slightly lower number 6.1 Apple announced that increased dividends and a $90 billion dollar buyback of a chairs during thursday session. So there you go. Some things to think about as we do is listen to both sides of the equation. Let's talk about this. Don't know how this let it here, but let's talk about it. Taco Bell's latest promotion revolves around the moon. Yeah. Not joking there. Moon Moon Edition uh Moon Edition. They either read the recently announced they will be giving away free tacos on May the fourth because it's a lunar event that scheduled to occur which begin being called the Taco moon. Yeah. According to the press release, over 20 markets will participate in the event during the T Bell will give away free tacos from eight PM until 11 59 PM. The period the time period during which the taco the taco mood will be the largest and brightest object in the sky. So mark it down May the fourth between eight PM and 11 59 PM. Taco moon. You know all taco people will celebrate of this particular gathering. I am a taco lover. The more tacos I can get, the more I love things you are listening to a radio God. What? This has to be an error. That host is not a radio god. Anyway, this is the rated r safety show on safety F. Firm. Okay. Two deputies in north Carolina's have died from injuries sustained during more than a 13 hour long standoff at a home in Watauga County. There, um, three others, including a suspected shooter is also did a canine deputy Logan Fox died. Hold on Canine. Deputy Logan Fox died in the scene. Sergeant chris ward died after being flown to a hospital for medical treatment and the two other victims as well as the suspected shooter have not yet been identified, but also local news station said they were a step father, mother and son. What started off as a welfare check Wednesday morning turned into a violent as soon as the deputies entered the home, the standoff between the armed individuals and the officers ended late Wednesday night. So there you go. What can you say when you hear stuff like that? Not much you can say. Initial jobless claims totaled 553,000 last week. While the number is higher than the 528,000 expected by economists, it is a slight drop from the previous week's claims of 566,000. The Labor Department said that four weeks moving average of news claims has reached the lowest point since March 2020 when the coronavirus took hold of the U. S. The total number of people receiving some unemployment assistance um still is about 16.6 million people. Funny how it changed from how many people were doing it before. That's for sure. Uh So let's continue, continue, continue. Let's get let's get john back in here and let's talk about what is going on with the motivation minute, the motivation minute is courtesy of better credit cards dot com. Vince Lombardi said, a man can be as great as he wants to be if you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you're willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done. What a great quote. I'm not even a sports fan but I know Lombardi was one heck of a coach and with quotes like this, I can see why that is some excellent advice and it still holds up today, Be as great as you want to be, believe in yourself, have courage, be determined, be dedicated and be ready to sacrifice the little things. This has been today's motivation minute, courtesy of better credit cards dot com. I'm john small, thanks for listening. Your favorite motivational quotes can be submitted for upcoming programs at motivation minute dot org. Don't go anywhere. You're listening to the home of real safety talk. You are listening to safety FM will be right back. Hamilton was adopted from a rescue in 2008. She really likes to be around people. I get out my mat and I'm doing a downw